Why does it sound masochistic? Are you thinking the verse says that we should seek out abuse? That wouldn’t be very helpful, and it’s not necessary; abuse seems to have a way of finding us. People are going to criticize you however you behave, and when they do, be big enough to take the criticism with dignity, like a battle elephant.
an explanation to this? it sounds masochist to me.
Why does it sound masochistic? Are you thinking the verse says that we should seek out abuse? That wouldn’t be very helpful, and it’s not necessary; abuse seems to have a way of finding us. People are going to criticize you however you behave, and when they do, be big enough to take the criticism with dignity, like a battle elephant.